The Importance of Community

 

This week I attended three separate events which caused me to slow down and acknowledge the importance of community.  Throughout the week of October 16-22, I participated in the Occupy Wall Street demonstration, the Concepts of Independence Inc. Annual Gala and ending the week on Saturday, I went to a memorial service for a friend named Michael Imperiale, who recently passed away.  One might think that there is not much connection between these events, but they would be mistaken.  Within the disability community practically every event tends to illustrate our similar spirit and identity.

According to Miriam Webster, “community” is defined as:

1: a unified body of individuals: as a : state, commonwealth b : the people with common interests living in a particular area; broadly : the area itself <the problems of a large community> c : an interacting population of various kinds of individuals (as species) in a common location d : a group of people with a common characteristic or interest living together within a larger society <a community of retired persons> e : a group linked by a common policy f : a body of persons or nations having a common history or common social, economic, and political interests <the international community> g : a body of persons of common and especially professional interests scattered through a larger society <the academic community>
2: society at large
3: a joint ownership or participation <community of goods> b : common character : likeness <community of interests> c : social activity : fellowship d : a social state or condition.

Almost all aspects of the definition above were present in all of these events.

Like many people in America that are frustrated with the economy, government, and a whole host of corporate malfeasance, people with disabilities are no different.  So, when the burgeoning Occupy Wall Street movement started to take hold, many were intrigued and wanted to get involved, myself included.  Finally, people are coming together in opposition to the Tea Party/Ayn Rand activists.  Naturally, I wanted to know more.  Soon I discovered that other disabled people were interested too.  In NYC, a group of activists with disabilities have given themselves on Facebook the name “Krips Occupy Wall Street” and have pledged to meet at Zuccotti Park every Sunday.  While I probably won’t be able to go every weekend, I was there last week.  People with disabilities have historically been discriminated against and marginalized in practically every aspect of society.  Whether it is segregated education, a healthcare system that promotes nursing homes and the institutional bias, or the disproportionate rate of unemployment and poverty within our community, if there is one group that should be demanding our rights and accountability, it is the disability community.  To be part of that effort was fantastic!

By way of background information for those that don’t know, Concepts of Independence Inc. is a not-for-profit organization that administers the Consumer Directed Personal Assistance Program here in NYC.  Concepts was the first such organization of its kind in the country to allow people with disabilities to hire, train, manage and control the care that an individual receives in the home.  After nearly 30 years, Concepts has become the model across the country.  Under the Consumer Directed model, people with disabilities have the freedom to live independently and notably, in these tight budgetary times, this type of care is less expensive.  Under this care delivery model, Personal Assistants are allowed to perform tasks which ordinarily must be completed by trained medical professionals, which is where the savings are generated.  For most of the people that were in attendance at the Concepts Gala, we share a common experience of fighting for our independence and living independently successfully.  While our disabilities are all very different, it is our desire to live freely that binds us together.

Michael Imperiale in Washington Square Park

The memorial for Michael Imperiale was held in the community room where Disabled In Action meets, which is more than appropriate, given that Michael was a long-standing member.  Disabled In Action (cofounded by Judy Heumann) was one of the earliest disability rights groups and Michael was involved from the beginning.  Michael had a zest for life that few can match, but everyone should emulate.  Michael had a definite connection in a large segment of the NYC disability community.  Although Michael wasn’t a leader in the traditional sense, he was undeniably a strong disability rights activist.  He attended practically every demonstration that I can remember over the past 20 years and at public meetings, Michael will be remembered for his unique ability to speak directly and get to the most important point.  I will always remember his comment at a NYS Department of Health meeting, “Don’t you understand?  This is about choice!”.  Michael’s statement is exactly what people with disabilities are fighting for all across this country and it is part of our common consciousness.

The foregoing description of the disability community is something that should be celebrated and not viewed, as by some non-disabled people, that our lives are difficult and not worth much.  I love the sense of commonality that I experience with other people with disabilities.  For instance, rolling down a sidewalk and making eye contact with another chair user, there is usually a slight nod, or smile of acknowledgment and recognition.  In a sense, we have all rolled in each other’s path.  For me, being connected with my fellow disabled brothers and sisters is important.  The disabled community has shaped the person I have become and I am lucky to be part of this vibrant community.

7 thoughts on “The Importance of Community

  1. Susan Scheer

    Well said, T.K! Thank you for an important reminder about the strength and vibrancy of our community.

  2. Brad Williams

    I appreciate how you connect three separate (but not separate) events. We are who we are. Thank you for recognizing this fact. When people ask me (who don’t know me) what I do for a living, I should say I am one of many advocates with disabilities looking to make change in day-to-day life. We are all connected. Thanks TK.

  3. Westchester

    Tk: I love your blog: Sorrry to hear about Michael . The only thing I can say about Occupy Wall Street
    is that I believe the real enemy for us krips are Government programs that don’t help us become
    independent empowered people and not the fat cats on wall street. But I will fight for everyones
    right to sleep on the streets of NYC. Power To The People !

  4. Mel Tanzman

    TK-
    I share your love of our community and appreciate the opportunities pwds have in the metropolitan area to create a vibrant community. I can’t help but think about our sisters and brothers in more rural areas who are often isolated with few community opportunities. In so many ways we are defined by not only who we are, but also by the environment we live in.

  5. Tim Cronin

    TK,
    Good to read your blog. It’s nice to hear your insights on the impact of Occupy Wall Street, independent living or the passing of Michael Imperiale. You always have a well thought out and compassionate viewpoint on the issues. Keep up the blog writing!

  6. Joe Adler

    Another timely blog! I’d like to speak with you about re-printing a portion of your blog as a NYSILC NewsBriefs article; specifically the part relating to Wall Street and the disability community. If you give me the go ahead, I’ll take a stab at this and submit it to you for your approval. Please advise.

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